Breaking Tradition: Widows Celebrate Diwali in Vrindavan

VRINDAVAN : In a significant departure from age-old customs, widows residing in Vrindavan rejoiced in the celebration of Diwali along the banks of the Yamuna River this past Tuesday.

Traditionally considered “inauspicious,” widows in India have long been excluded from participating in auspicious festivities, constrained by deep-rooted Hindu social norms.

On this occasion, widow mothers from various shelter homes gathered at the historic KC Ghat to light vibrant diyas and partake in the Diwali festivities. The ghat was adorned with beautiful rangoli designs and illuminated by hundreds of earthen lamps. The women also chanted Krishna bhajans and danced in celebration.

Historically, Hindu tradition prohibited these widows from engaging in such rituals. To combat the societal stigma surrounding widowhood, noted social reformer the late Dr. Bindeshwar Pathak initiated a series of measures over a decade ago, including organizing Hindu celebrations like Diwali and Holi in Vrindavan. Sulabh has since held this special Diwali event each year.

Thousands of widows, predominantly from West Bengal, gathered to find joy and fellowship in these newly embraced traditions.
Breaking age old tradition Widows living in Vrindavan once again celebrated Deepawali on the bank of Yamuna in Vrindavan on Tuesday.

Usually,widows were treated as “inauspicious” and age old Hindu social system prevented them to take part in any auspicious occasion in India.

Widow mothers from various shelter homes gathered at historic KC ghat and lit colourful Diyas and celebrated Diwali . Widows decorated the ghat with rangoli and lit hundreds of earthen lamps. They also chanted Krishna bhajans and danced.

Earlier, as per Hindu tradition, these widows were not allowed to take part in any such rituals. To counter the social evil of Widowhood, noted Social reformer Late Dr. Bindeshwar Pathak initiated series of measures including organising Hindu rituals like Dipawali and Holi in Vrindavan about a decade ago. Since then Special Dipawali is being organised by Sulabh every year.

Thousands of widows, mostly from West Bengal, live in Vrindavan for decades and they were not allowed to take part in rituals, till social organisation Sulabh extended them a helping hand added Mrs Vinita verma, Vice President of Hope Foundation.

One of the widows Mrs Chabi Dasi says, “motivated by the series of revolutionary initiatives widows are now happy and enjoying stay in Vrindavan.”
Sulabh has been playing a leading role in adding mirth to the lives of the widows by organising other functions for from time to time.

On a routine basis, Sulabh provides them medical facilities and vocational training besides meeting their day-to-day needs so that they do not feel left out during the twilight years of their lives

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Brij Khandelwal

Brij Khandelwal

Brij Khandelwal of Agra is a well known journalist and environmentalist. Khandelwal became a journalist after his course from the Indian Institute of Mass Communication in New Delhi in 1972. He has worked for various newspapers and agencies including the Times of India. He has also worked with UNI, NPA, Gemini News London, India Abroad, Everyman's Weekly (Indian Express), and India Today. Khandelwal edited Jan Saptahik of Lohia Trust, reporter of George Fernandes's Pratipaksh, correspondent in Agra for Swatantra Bharat, Pioneer, Hindustan Times, and Dainik Bhaskar until 2004). He wrote mostly on developmental subjects and environment and edited Samiksha Bharti, and Newspress Weekly. He has worked in many parts of India.

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